Imagine a dude gives you a gift. I dunno what the gift is. Just imagine the most awesomest gift you can imagine. And the dude says "You totally deserve this man. Some chic gave it to me. I dunno why she gave it to me, but she said I totally deserved it."
Are you thankful to the dude? Are you thankful to the chic? Do you think, "there must be some first giver who started the chain"?